Wednesday, January 4, 2012

New Years Resolution

"She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness." Proverbs 31:27


Oh, idleness. I must confess something to you - I am definitely prone to be lazy. It's probably my biggest weakness. 


Sure, I wake up with all of these ideas of how to be productive...but then somehow time just slips through my fingers. I go to check my email "real quick" and next thing I know, hours later, I've ended up watching random Super Bowl commercials on YouTube ( a bit of an exaggeration, but you know what I mean). 


I then am in a rush to cook supper, get the house straightened up for my husband...and when he gets home and asks what I've been up to all day I feel so ashamed. I also again feel ashamed laying down at night feeling so unproductive. 


You see, my husband is very self disciplined and plans out practically every minute of his day. He LIVES for his to-do lists and he always has a plan! Me???? Not so much, but I know that I MUST start making plans and to-do lists to get things done. I'm the person who waits until the last minute to do pretty much everything, thus, it's an adequate job, but not my best. Not only will be being productive please my husband (drives him NUTS when time is wasted - can't tell you how often he has reminded me of Ephesians 5:16), but because it pleases the Lord for me to be productive and to not be given to idleness. 


Every time I read Proverbs 31 - which I try to do every day, and I recommend every woman to do the same - I not only feel convicted but soooooooo inadequate. I keep thinking "I don't even have children yet, how in the world am I going to manage once there are all these little people running around???" 


One thing about the virtuous woman is she was BUSY! The woman was always cooking things, making things, selling things, buying things, planting things, etc. Lately I've reflected on why the Lord wants us women to be busy and not idle, and I've come to a few conclusions:


1) Idleness can lead to sin. I know this for a fact! When I'm busy being lazy and not attending to my home I am more likely to fall in to sin which includes not spending time with the Lord, therefore, leading to bitterness against my husband, etc. etc. Not to mention, as women, how much more likely are we to gossip or put our noses in other people's business when we're not busy!


2) Idleness makes me neglect my home. This is kind of a "duh." If I'm being idle, then obviously I'm not attending to my home. Now, it's not a sin to relax every now and then. For me, since I do not have any children (at least not for a few more weeks), I do have more free time on my hand - but even during those moments I need to guard myself in what I do to make sure that it's still glorifying the Lord. For example, during free time this is a great time to read a book about homemaking or something to encourage me in my walk with the Lord, in my marriage, and as a mother. 


3) We, as Christians, need to "redeem the time because the days are evil." (Ephesians 5:16). This verse isn't just geared towards women but to ALL Christians! We are in the last days, and we need to make sure that in EVERYTHING we do we are glorifying the Lord. Again, I'm not saying that it's a sin to relax, we certainly need it at times and God even set aside an entire day of the week to rest. But, we need to always be conscientious of what we're doing to further the Kingdom of God. Our reason for being on this earth is to glorify the Lord in everything we do!! Always keep that in mind!


So...I say all this to say that this is my New Years Resolution. I usually don't do these, but, since the Lord has recently laid this on my heart and it's a new year, I think it's appropriate. 


If it didn't look so tacky, I would have post-it notes of Proverbs 31 all over my house as a reminder lol but for now, I think I'll just stick it in certain places - like my computer, over my oven, etc. Also, I'm going to be making up a schedule so I'll always know what I'm doing and when! 


I hope this encourages you all! I'm sure that those of you who are mothers of children laugh at this post because relaxation is probably the thing of the past for you - but for us who aren't as busy, it's a good reminder :-)


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3 comments:

Nicole Searfoss-Owner, Indulgent Aromas said...

I have 4 kids, and watch more on most days, and I still easily fall into this trap. I homeschool, too! My oldest two do their work on the computer and my 5 yo only takes a little time, so I fall into 'computer' downtime WAY more than I should. I do have a lot of time, because I strive to not fill up my schedule just to 'have something to do'. My house is clean, but not as clean as it should/could be. You are not alone.......this has been something I am being convicted of lately also. My kids deserve more of me and I am so much nicer to be around if I'm not preoccupied with something else. I only have so much time with them...I need to make the most of EVERY moment :) Here's to getting up and getting moving!!!!

Little Natural Cottage said...

Such a convicting post!

Even though I am very task-oriented (sounds like your husband is too), I have definitely had to learn how to prioritize my days and be a wise manager of my time. Having babies does give you lots of "practice" in that department. :)

You're a wise lady to begin NOW to develop good habits! Looking back, I think "I can't believe how much time I wasted before I had children... if only I would have known then what I've learned the hard way now!" :)

Wonderful post, and wonderful blog. Thanks for linking up at Little Natural Cottage!

AwaydownSouth said...

I can't drink tea anymore(Like most Southern children I was raised on it until it placed me in pain as a child.) , but that is a charming and pretty banner you have.

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